Guest Post By: Kalynn
I guess I’m writing this as a last resort from loosing my mind. For the past 6 yrs I’ve been going back and forth with my current bf. who is most definitely an alcoholic. I’m also pretty sure he is bi-polar as well, but that’s another story.
The biggest problem I’m having is he knows how bad it hurts considering I don’t really have a relationship with my mother because of it already. He promises to change and on good days he will admit the problem too. But its just a giant roller coaster. We were doing great, but now it erks me so much that when he comes home from work (he works really hard) drunk, I’m automatically pissed to be honest I just threw him out and now I feel horrible. Most times I call him out on it I get accused of cheating or some other outlandish thing. I really don’t know what to do. I love him with all my heart but he really isn’t helping me as much as he’s hurting me, but for whatever reason, I always take him back. Am I beyond help? lol
JC: Kalynn, I am so sorry to hear you are having to deal with such difficulties. We just had a very lengthy discussion last week in relation to a young lady who is considering marrying an alcoholic. You might want to check out all of the amazing comments by clicking here: Alcoholic Boyfriend Refuses To Get Help.